I wish i could b better. I've known my bf for over 3 yrs. I

I wish i could b better. I've known my bf for over 3 yrs. I just don't know where we are going. Too many problems n hindrances. His son is a big hindrance. Always demanding. He's almost 28 yrs old n won't work always asking daddy for money into the drug scene. Im tired of it. I would love to walk away but he fixes my vehicles. Im lost.

I'm sorry for your feelings of doubt and confusion. Having someone to fix your cars is certainly a plus, but no reason to stay in a relationship with someone. You are doing a disservice to him and cheating yourself out of a better relationship. Maybe sit down and be honest with yourself and with him. Hugs.

@froggymom. I am done initiating things it is time for the people to step up to the plate. Men don’t want to initiate anything they want the woman to do everything. Im tired of that. There are too many men whipped out there.