If only this was a possibility... Grr
If we only knew then what we know now....
True. But instead of regretting choices lets use the knowledge we've gained to prevent worse in the future. And help others in the process. We are stronger and wiser now. And we know it.
@iwillgetout so true!
Amen to that!
@iwillgetout You are truly ready to go, and ready to grow. I'm behind you all the way!
@ColaWars I’m behind you all the way too
Ahhh if only
Concerning this topic mostly I feel foolish. I knew something was different from the start. I even said how crazy quickly our relationship evolved from just being friends who talk to each other to so much more. In the space of three months. I know what love bombing is. I have know it for about twenty years, but I have never experienced it before about a year ago. Now I know first hand what love bombing feels like, and if anyone tries to do it me ever again I'm out the door. Lessons learned.
@AugWrath don’t feel foolish if you’re a fool we are all right there with you! They are master con men and we wanted it to be real. Lesson learned though and won’t happen again.
there is a reason it happened to us. A hard lesson to learn, a painful one, but hopefully coming from that place, it will take us all to a better one....Hugs to all who suffered at the hands of a narc
I ignored all the signs of a terror relationship developing (love does that); and ignored advice from one of her best friends not to marry her. Oh well.