If you wouldn't just give up your spouse or your kid for no reason, why in the world would you think the LACK of such things for no reason isn't just as important?
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@Chris2923 I agree totally with your first part. But after 35 years of “just letting it be,” I can’t bring myself to believe anything or anyone will just “find” me. EVERY person who’s ever liked me, I had to work to find. NOBODY has ever just “happened” along. Either I worked for it or I’ve kept my eyes open. And don’t say, “That’s why they weren’t right.” Even the ones I kept my eyes open for without necessarily looking “weren’t right.” So that would hold no logic. No offense. I’ve just heard that hundreds of times and it’s never worked for me. The OTHER way has worked in the rare instances when anything has worked.