I'll even go one further, tell me something about your spouse. This one is hard because you're feeling so much hurt, but if you start thinking about the positive you'll start to feel better. So I'm challenging you to be positive and tell me something positive about your spouse.
I'll start it off. My wife is beautiful and has a smile that melts my heart every time I see it. She brightens a room when she walks in and her sense of humor makes her so much fun to be around.