well it really isn’t fiar that you should have to babysit if you don’t want to as you are a minor yourself!! It’s hard to deal with younger siblings if they are bratty. I’ve taken care of nephews but they are much younger than me so although sometimes it would be lots of work and me yelling at them and running after them if they don’t listen I’m MUCH bigger and am more in control. I know it’s harder to control your sister because she’s close to your age and isn’t a baby. Have you told you parents how you think it’s unfair that you have to babysit. I’m glad you’re having fun at your friend’s house. It’s nice to get out of the house!! You should visit friends more often. But I’m SURE that if you died in your house people WOULD notice! They wouldn’t jsut walk over you and ignore it! They definately would notice! I used to feel that way. where I thought I could die and nobody would even notice my dead body in my room because nobody ever comes to see me or anything but I realize that’s not true. Therapy can help. I think it would be very beneficial for you to go see someone. Have you thought about why the people around you act a certain way? Like what’s going on in their lives that makes them treat you differently? I’m sure they care. And also a psychiatrist could give you something for anti anxiety so that you could feel relaxed and not think you’re dying. I hope you’re feelinf better today. glad you were able to go to a happy place =) How was your visit to your bff’s house?
hey heather, i am quite shocked by your comment that nobody would realize if you died. why do yout hink that? do they not acknowledge you?
have you ever been able to talk to maybe your dad about your fears and worries?
i definitely agree, go and see your school counselor as you should not have to deal with these feelings all by yourself!
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maedi
My dad wiuld notice if I was on my deayhbed. I do but he only tells me its in my head. I usually talk to my friends parents. And I will
Heather, your family would notice and be beyond devastation. I know that you may think that things are light and fun at your friend's house, but I am sure they also have problems as a family. No one is perfect and no family is perfect. My family has its ups and downs, but from the outside we look like we're one big happy family. We get along majority of the time, but we also have our moments. Please talk to a counselor, and we are here to help you through this in any way that we can.
ok thanks I will
Yes I agree with puppydoglvr! some people seem differently from the outside! you're friends families might seem great and their parents might seem great but you don't know what happens when you leave. I know my mom would treat my friends great and even be semi nice to me around them and other people get treated nicely but when there are no guests she's yelling and screaming and insulting me and not as nice as she is to guests. Every family has problems even if they seem great. Your family loves you. You said your dad would notice if you were dying so maybe spend mroe time with him sicne you feel he cares more than others? Why do oyu think your mom woouldn't notice?
Hi Heather! Happy Friday! How are you doing today? How are you feeling?