I'm 20 yrs old and never had a girlfriend before. All of high school not one girl wanted to talk to me so I start getting depressed. So I joined POF.com which is very depressing. The 1st girl I talk to on there talked to me for 3 months and the day before the 1st date she cancels and said she wants to be friends even though we were still friends on facebook I saw that she chose another guy over me. The next couple years on there was girls leading me on to build their ego. Next was my best friends sister who I had a crush on for a couple months. She went through a very bad breakup so I tried to cheer her up. We did go on a date and she said she liked spending time with me that day. When I asked her to consider me for a relationship she said she doesnt want to date for a LONG while. Last was a girl I recently met. She seemed she was nice and pretty but one problem she is homeless and hangs around with drunks and beggers who beg for money. Most of the time I spend with her is when shes with those people. She said if I dont like hanging around them then I cant talk to her anymore. Can I find that one special girl in my lifetime or did I get cursed of being single forever??
Dude you shouldn't being thinking about getting a girlfriend so soon personally just concentrate on yourself, stop hanging around with negative people like that. Plus there's no need to rush in getting into a relationship so soon.
I know but I keeping thinking about the near future that I'm afraid that I wont find that special someone
@sports_fan Well i get that because everyone has those thoughts, but you need to be with someone who has a similar lifestyle to you. Where you’ll can work with each other rather than change each other.