I'm a Genderfluid/Transmascline person. Does anyone have binding tips? I try to look has male has possible this would really help. Thx!
Youtube is your friend with these kinds of things! There are loads of good how-to videos
Get a binder! Never use ace bandages or duct tape, even with a sports bra. I shouldn't even have to say that but you never know! NEVER exercise or sleep in a binder! You want it to be snug but not tight, if you can't take in as deep as a breath as normal, it's too tight. They're kind of claustrophobic at first, so limit yourself to an hour or two at first then keep adding on time every day to help condition yourself, but try not to wear them for longer than 12 hours. They are not to be worn 24/7! I know that's hard if you experience dysphoria, but you don't need broken bones on top of that. Don't buy one that you know will be too small. I've heard Underworks is a reliable brand, google it and give them a try! They also have boxers and briefs that "help give more of a masculine look" if you know what I'm sayin'...
@BIRDSdotJPEG I can’t get a binder my parents won’t let me
gc2b binders is another online store that I was just referred to, and they've got a GREAT sizing chart! They're also more trans-oriented so you'll probably get what you need over there
Hey, welcome to SG :-) Get a proper binder, I'd recommend underworks I always get their binders. If you go to http://www.f2mbinders.com/ that part of the underworks site has the ftm size guide. I'd recommend the 988 or the tri-top,the tri-top binds a bit better I find, but is tighter and not so comfortable, the 988 I can wear comfortably all day (I often wear it inside out so the cotton layer is against the skin)
http://www.supportgroups.com/transgender/ftm-binders-packers-and-stps-ive-put-together-a-list
Is a post I made with a list of sites for info and to buy binders, packers and stp's, you might find some of them helpful.
I can relate to those anxious feelings about being around to many people. Try to enjoy the gentle breeze blowing through the trees out in the country. I just made myself want to write a poem! Hopefully you will be inspired too!
If you're in the US this site
http://www.transactiveonline.org/inabind/get.php
might be able to get you a free binder, there are also a lot of similar sites that try to help guys get binders.
This site gives a free binder when you buy a t-shirt, could that work for you?
http://point5cc.com/binder-giveaways/
And this is a list of other places to try