I'm confused. My clinically diagnosed narcissist bipolar hus

I'm confused. My clinically diagnosed narcissist bipolar husband of 22 years seems to be trying, but as soon as he thinks I'm staying he relaxes his efforts pretty quickly. He so successfully his numerous "emotional" affairs from me that I'm scared to trust him with my heart again. Furthermore, I'm physically afraid of him. When he's well he's great! Prince Charming in every way. But when he's bad he's horribly bad and scary. Two different people in the same body. I don't know what to do.

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Welcome to the group. Narcs don't feel empathy or remorse so they will never change. What you are seeing is an act to keep you around as a supply.

Its typical. When theyre afraid you'll leave they turn on charm. When they relax it goes off like a light switch. Sickos.