I'm going through a divorce, my stbxwife and i have been together for almost 20 years married for 15, the marriage has been toxic for at least a few years where there were times I couldn't stand her i almost initiated the divorce but didn't but then we had a big fight and she filed, I got served Monday, now I can't get her out of my head every thought that is going through my headmistress all the good times that we had and we did have alot throughout the marriage but like I said it's been mostly toxic, why am I doing this to myself? Everytime I try to think of nasty stuff that we did to each other a loving memory comes in into my head and I almost begin to cry. I want to stop fooling mymyself into thinking that the marriage doesn't need to end it does but my God how to i stop the memories, they sure as hell don't happen to her she has a near hatred with me and wants this divorce done and over with as soon as possible
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I am too young and inexperienced to advice u anything but I would like tell u that .. embrace those beautiful memories .. don't let those bad experience overcome the good time you guys spend .. its just a matter of time .. things will get better soon
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