I'm pretty sure I have a problem with narcissist problem. I use people without even feeling guilty when I let them go. I think everything about myself, I seem to just compliment myself and insult everyone else.
Since you suspect that you may have narcissist personality traits, may I ask your purpose in visiting this site? What you'll find here are many, many stories of hurt, betrayal, and deceit visited by narcissist individuals against their victims. If you are one of those rare individuals with a self-awareness of narcissist traits and a desire to rid yourself of them you'll really need to find a competent therapist to do that. This is a self-help, support site for victims, and doesn't have the resources which would be needed to treat someone for narcissism. It is encouraging that you are fairly confident you have a problem with narcissism, but that you don't want to live your life as narcissists do.
The purpose of me coming on to this site was to deal with my other problems as well as this one. Let's just say that I don't have enough money to get a therapist.
I do! I really do think about that but I can't seem to change the ways I speak to people.
Lillyflowers - Could you possibly be hoping for clues on how to behave to win someone over?
If you're questioning whether you're a narcissist then you're not because a narcissist never thinks they have a problem.