I'm so stupid, I let myself catch feelings for this guy be

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I'm so stupid, I let myself catch feelings for this guy because he is a Christian, a single dad raising his daughter. He gave me his number, he was the one who friended me on Facebook, someone that grew up in the same neighborhood I was in as a child, which by the way ate the only reasons I accepted, he told me he was going to call me every Tuesday so I told myself he must like me to want to commit to calling me every Tuesday, soooo what do you guys think after reading this. I don't ever consider any man from my race but I gave it a try.

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I think go with it

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@norseduncan thank you but I can’t because he said yesterday that he’s very busy and that he appreciates me and so me being a sabotager lol felt some kinda way and told him hmu whenever he has time because I was feeling stupid sending him messages and he says at the end of the night “it’s all good “B” good night.” Anyway today he apologizes that just an old friend talking to another old friend sorry for misleading me. I’m sure you know what I did last night the second I felt hurt and rejected and so and so on I did what I know how to do to turn the pains feelings off I disassociated damn Skippy then I played for hours on my phone and and tried to distract my thoughts.

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I am very sorry. are you ok?

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@norseduncan I have to be! I don’t have a choice.

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Some narcs source hop and use people for mothering their kids. Just a warning. Be yourself and set and keep boundries. Go slow.

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@Kbloodless thank you :heart:

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yep, go slow. get to know him, really know him. "picking" someone because of their religious beliefs, because they have children, whatever, is no different than picking them just because you find them physically attractive. if you are interested, spend the time to peel back the layers and see what is underneath the shell that attracts you.

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@lbeoif thank you very much funny but we had a long conversation tonight and he was hesitant to tell me something that he did and even though it was with good intentions it turned out ugly he asked me not to say anything til he was done I already knew about it and was touched that he was honest about something he did in the past that he was unhappy about. Slow is good! Thanks!!