First time poster!
I have been a stay at home dad for the past 10 years. My wife has a good paying job but she is on the road for 40+ weeks of the year. I have 2 children a son 14 & a daughter 17 who does not live in the home anymore.
Three weeks ago my wife came home & announce she was leaving and taking my son. I said no and she called the sheriff, they came and told her she could only take her stuff and not my sons. I kept carm and just hoped we could work it out, but she packed up her stuff (with all our car & truck title's files and my INS paperwork) & drove to my sons school and picked him up, drove to our bank & wiped out all out personal accounts & half of my farm account. I haven't seen them since.
During these 3 weeks she has re-titled all our cars & trucks in her sole name & managed to pick my work truck up for a repair shop it was in. So I have no truck to work my farm ( I have 12 horses here) She has tried to call the INS on me to see if they will deport me (I'm from the UK and lived here 20yrs, married 18yrs) And is calling all my friends & customers, going on facebook telling lies about me.
You must think I'm a scumbag or something , but I honestly have not done anything to warrent this!! I am a good father, a loyal husband and I work as much as I can. I'm really a good person, but she is making me out to be a monster! I really don't understand how she can justify doing this.
I have a few good friends around for help & support but I don't want to bother them with all this. I get do depressed it's not funny and the ups & downs are just making my diabetes much much worse.
This divorce stuff is so hard to deal with and so hard to find any kind of support from people who are going thru or have gone thru it before.
Save every single post she has made on FB so you can show a judge that she is going out of her way to disparage you publicly. Get a copy of the sign out log from your son's school to prove it was the day she signed him out and that she has alienated you from him ever since. It will show that she is not being a good mother who has her children's best interests at heart. She sounds very angry. I think if you stay calm, at first it will make her madder, and eventually she will come back down and realize that she has no reason to behave this way toward you. Try not to react. That's what she'll feed off of. As for retitling the cars, etc., you will probably need a lawyer to sort that out. I hope you have money to do so. Once papers are filed, she will be forbidden from altering assests, but that doesn't mean she won't disregard the order.