How would you interprete the following?
My husband and daughter got their food from the drive through after I had gotten mine from inside(they decided it was too busy inside) my daughter took the two bags of theirs and rearranged so that each of them had their stuff in their own bag. She handed his bag to the front seat. He grabbed it (I thought he might grab a fry) he rolled the top of the bag closed. I tried moving the bag out of his way. He said, "you can put it in the back seat. I just wanted it closed." I put it next to my bag on thefloor of the front where I often put food. He got mad at me for not doing what he says he told me to do and put it into the back seat. Then he said that I did not listen to him I repeated what he said and that I did not think that "you can" means "do only this". Am I supposed to only do what is suggested to me to do?
I think you should discuss why it is such a big deal for it to be put there. address the anger he has shown and tell him how it made you feel when addressed that way. Marriage is all about communication and if it is left unsaid it could still be a problems as well as grow into a bigger problem