My cousins child is to get married my mam is invited but it at an age I don’t think she should travel alone. My aunt 3 cousins invited, A cousins girlfriend who is only dating a year or 2 got invited but not the rest of us cousins never mind the rest of the husbands who they know longer and better than that girlfriend, How bad is this to invite her over family who where around when they came to visit .
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Do you know if the place they are having the wedding reception/.party/dinner is very expensive?I have heard of situations where the Bride and Groom have to make guest list decisions based upon $$$$ rather than who they are really close to or have spent more quality time with.Maybe they are inviting your Mom because she is older so they are showing her respect and not realizing she would need a traveling companion,does her invitation say Mrs … and Guest?If it says guest then maybe they just thought you or another Cousin would automatically be traveling with your Mom?I have also heard of so many people getting angry or in fights over who was included in a wedding only to find out later it was not meant to be a personal put down but usually all about who was helping to pay for and plan the Wedding,sometimes people who are contributing large amounts of $$$$ want to control everything about the Wedding without even knowing all the Cousins,Aunts,Uncles ,Husbands,Wives and all that.I would get some more information before you decide it’s something bad,maybe it’s not?Hope my comment helps,take good care of yourself!
They look use to look after my mam and aunt when they went over . But my mam is a lot older now and they will be busy with the wedding .I wouldn’t go anyway as sitting around in another country. not known most people is not my thing .
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