Is it creepy to write an apology letter to someone, who dislikes me?
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Not creepy but weird maybe?
@Jordan5683 Alright. Thank you.
i had a situation where a close friend of mine randomly cut me off, ghosted me on everything, and refused to talk to me. i wrote her a note and handed it to her in the hall, but i never got a response and doubt she read it. i don't know what i did to push her to that point and it still urks me to this day. don't let it get to you, because if that person won't tell you what you did or give you the light of day then you shouldn't assume you did something wrong but that they are the reason there's a wedge.
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@ruin (and btw, writing letters is never creepy or weird when you’re trying to resolve a conflict or something like that. if you’re being a crazy stalker and writing weird love notes, that’s a different story.)
My therapist has me write letters to people but not send them. I would just be upfront and ask him to his face, "I've noticed you seem (insert behavior) to me and it could just be me interpreting the situation wrong but I wanted to make sure I didn't offend you somehow......" If you do that, he should either tell you or become friendlier towards you.
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@Wiltedflowerz What if he doesn’t do anything about it?
If you said all that and he didn't respond, then he is a **** that you shouldn't waste a second longer on. I personally don't even think that you should even bother with what I suggested unless you need some peace. He has already ignored you but if your relationship is one that you Need to repair such as a classmate or coworker, or family member then I think what I wrote might work.
@Wiltedflowerz Ok, thank you.