Do you think it's wrong to be dating a guy and have a friend that is a guy to come to your house for like 30 minutes? Because my exboyfriend sure believes its wrong. My boyfriend now was totally ok with my friend coming to see me. I went to school with my friend and hadn't seen him in forever so he wanted to come see me. So my mom and her boyfriend took me to meet my friend, then I rode back to my house with my friend and he stayed about 30 minutes only thing we did was laugh and talk and that's it. My birthday is Tuesday so I invited him to come spend my 17th birthday with me. My boyfriend can't make it and most of my friends can't make it so I invited my friend to come spend my birthday with me. Do any of y'all think what I am doing is wrong or not? Please respond, I want answers and advice.
I personally don't think it's wrong, I have a boyfriend, and I have guys that are friends and he has girl that is friends, and sometimes I hang out with my guys that are friends and he hangs out with girls that are friends and we are both ok with that. So no I dont think it is wrong in my opinion.
Of course it's not wrong. And deciding whether or not it's right or wrong has absolutely nothing to do with your boyfriend or your ex-boyfriend because you have to know that their opinions are bound to be biased and tainted with jealousy (even though I get that your current boyfriend is OK with this). You clearly think this is not wrong- it's obvious from what you posted-- probably because your conscience is clear--you're not entertaining romantic thoughts of your friend. It's a matter of trust. You're comfortable with your boyfriend doing the same thing with an old female friend right?
Thank you Princess
Ross, I am completely comfortable with my boyfriend hanging out with other girls. I know that he has nothing to worry about with me so why should I be worried about him hanging out with other girls? I can honestly say I use to have a crush on my friend several years ago, but I don't anymore. My exboyfriend is completely obsessed with me and jealus of every guy I talk to and hang out with. I talked to him on the phone last night and I hope that he will leave me alone now. Thank you Ross.
I dont think it's wrong. If ur just friends then ur bf shld trust u
Thank you baby girl bear... My boyfriend trust me, it's my ex that is making a big deal out of it because he is obsessed with me and jealus of every guy I talk to and hang out with.
if it's the x that is doing this, themn u should kick him to the curb, cuz he has no right to tell u who yo talk to (as well as anyone else doesnt have that right).
I don't think it is wrong to see or have a friend of the opposite sex, if your bf or ex bf thinks it is, they have a problem with their own security, especially since you have known him as long as you have, don't let others choose your friends or dictate to you who you should have as a friend, stay happy and be yourself :-)
Baby girl bear I have been trying to get him to leave me alone ever since we broke up. He is obsessed with me, but I think I finally got him to leave me alone.
Frederick, my ex is obsessed with me, but I think I finally got him to leave me alone. My boyfriend is ok with me hanging out with guy friends, because he trust me. I don't let anyone choose my friends or anything like that... Thank you.
No, it's not wrong to have a friend Hang out at your home, someone who thinks it's wrong is Insecure.....
Thank you Ron.
I hope so, for your sake. HUGS!
Thank you baby girl bear... I haven't heard from him since that day me and him got into that fight. I have thought about him, then I remember what he said to me, and I forget about him.