It is very difficult to try and engage in lovemaking during

It is very difficult to try and engage in lovemaking during sexual intercourse with my wife..Especially when I initiate doing MISSIONARY position, at the moment of entry to her vagina..I get soft..
Upsetting for me to gain penetration with a soft penis..
What do I do in this case?My wife is highly aroused..and so am I..but my plumbing isn't working right..

Help!

I can sympathize with you and I know how frustrating it is! What have you tried? Have you given Viagra or Cialis a try? Are you on any medications that might effect your abilities? Overweight, diet, exercise, MS, diabetes, heart or blood flow issues, smoker, alcohol, recreational drugs, stress, anxiety, old age, psychological, distractions, dog looking at you, kids knocking on the door, thoughts of your mother in law being a hag, etc... All these can be ED factors and I'm sure I missed a few hundred other factors. I personally have better luck avoiding missionary and hitting it from behind without the help of ED drugs because it's just more comfortable to me.

Hi Bob..In responding to you about erectile dysfunction..
First of all..I am a non smoker, casual drinker,not overweight,but my age..could be a factor..age 57..
I just want to be able to make love with my wife and satisfy her..but with a limp penis...its very hard..( no pun intended)
I do take an anti anxiety pill..but nothing else..I dont use recreational drugs either

When it comes to true intimacy between two people who truly care for each other there is no such thing as failure. You need to talk to your partner about what each of you want and can do. Then you make the necessary adjustments. There are tons of ways to be intimate.

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