It is very difficult to try and engage in lovemaking during

It is very difficult to try and engage in lovemaking during sexual intercourse with my wife..Especially when I initiate doing MISSIONARY position, at the moment of entry to her vagina..I get soft..
Upsetting for me to gain penetration with a soft penis..
What do I do in this case?My wife is highly aroused..and so am I..but my plumbing isn't working right..

Help!

Have you tried different positions, aides such as a penis ring? Talk to your wife, discuss what could help, what is she willing to try, what are you willing to try. Remember when you first had sex, you talked about it, you asked what felt good, your partner did too, do that now! Obviously you can get it up, you just have to figure out how to keep it that way. May I also point out that a guys prostate is their g spot, so get to searching how to hit that and how to help keep you and your wife's sex life going and missionary is probably not it.

Thank You very much for the advice, CK.
I will try and address the problem more directly with my wife..because constant communication can only enhance our sex life and when she has issues regarding wettness..I am always there for her..as well!

Have you tried Viagra or Cialis?

Bob..I am looking into Cialis for Daily Use..5 milligrams..because it has bren unpredictable to predict when my wife and I will have sex

Okay great! I think it should help. I know its hard to be spontaneous with ED pills. IMHO Viagra gives you better erections but like you mentioned Cialis is better for trying to be more spontaneous and seems to feel like it's more natural. If pills don't work out don't despair as there is other options like Trimix injections or implants like Coloplast Titan or AMS 700. From what you've described to us, it sounds like you'll be fine with the pills for years to come. Lucky for you that generics are now available here in the US now and you don't have to pay $15 each pill anymore.

Your Right, Bob.
I will try the Cialis..once I get the subscription from my urologist.
I like being spontaneous with my wife..and not having to plan sex..and worry about taking a PRN,used as needed solution ..