It's been 6 weeks since my husband left. I have not cried much these past 2 weeks. I went to a divorce support group last night and broke down. When I am at home I feel pretty numb, I guess opening those wounds made me lose it again. Right now, life with the kids is pretty lonely. I have okay days with them, and some days I'm super angry. My husband is the most irresponsible, immature man I've ever known. He hasn't made any effort to visit the kids. He e-mailed me the divorce papers on my birthday a few weeks ago. I was so irritated, I was trying to have a good day and he still had to nerve to ask what I was doing that day and if I wanted to go out. I said no, and he said well the way I was towards him, he changed his mind of taking me out. I didn't agree with what he wanted so he didn't file, the divorce is in limbo. BTW, he is 37 years old. I've ignored him since then, he started texting me asking me why I don't visit him or contact him. I just don't understand why?? Why this is happening or why did I ever got with him. He didn't take his departure from us or my ignorance towards him well. He lost his job, got fired. I feel he should pay for the divorce, child support, and alimony. He threatened me with his life if I ever left him for the past 7 years. As of now, he might as well be dead to me. I don't know how to proceed with the divorce with him being jobless. I'm just angry that I let this drag on for 7 years and I get the short end of the stick while he gets his freedom but still feels sorry for himself.
The "jobless" status seems very well planned. My stbx has his own LLC conveniently is without contract and no income for the first time in 27 years.