Its definitely lonely being bisexual especially challenging in a committed hetero relationship. My SO really has no clue what I am feeling and iimpossible to talk about this subject with my guy friends. Plus, I dont have as many women friends that I used to.
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I think that when you decide to get into a committed relationship you have to accept that you are with that person and blaming wanting to be able to be with both men and women mean you aren't ready to be in a monogamous relationship with either gender at the moment, that isn't bad, just something you need to realize. Hugs!
Well, part of it is that we have been together for so long that I am sexually frustrated. But, I am trying to take positive steps to tell her and be open about my needs
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This sounds similar to what I'm going through. I'm just getting to the point where I can talk to her about it so I will let you know how our conversation goes and I will give you advice where I can
I talked to my SO and it went surprisingly well. I told her I needed to talk to her about something, at any point we could stop but I want to finish. We took a couple breaks but ultimately she took it a lot better than I imagined. I don't know if that will work for you but I thought it might help. I let her ask anything she wanted, this also seemed to help.