I've been going through depression and self harming for 2 years and it all started when my ex bf broke up with me. He was my first love and my best friend who really understood me which just made it harder. It's hard and I hate how it feels as if something is pushing down on you and you can't get out.
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Hey I just want you to know that you don't have to harm yourself because of a break up. If you and was meant to be then y'all will still be together. But y'all are not which only means that you have more opportunity to find your knight in shining armor who would love you for you. Going through break ups is normal. Although it may hurt at first, just know that you will get over it in due time. This heartbreak could do two things: it can hinder you from ever finding true love. Or it can help you with your future relationship. Take everything in life as a lesson and you will never feel like a failure.
Yea I've definitely realized that over time, but the thing is I didn't start cutting because of the breakup. I just went through really bad depression which is still going on now that led me to cutting. Over time I learned that I'm just have to deal with it, but what started it all was the breakup because he was my best friend we knew each other for 11 years and after we stopped talking it made it even more harder .
My ex had cuts on her arms and when I saw them and couldn't believe someone I found so beautiful could hert them selves. Then I realized that I wanted no human to hert themselves because we are all worth living.