I've been off for the last month because I decided to go back to my boyfriend of 9 years after a god awful breakup over cheating. We lived together and I threw him out. The new girl dumped him and he came back to me and I took him! I listened to how things would be different and 1 month later he dumped me again, I'm hurting all over again
I am so sorry. I have only been here for a few days myself but welcome back. *hugs* For me at least, every day I am away I feel a million times better. Some days I miss him but then I remember that the **** I saw when I left was the real thing.
I'm so sorry to hear your story.
It's common for co-dependants to fall victim to them again, to want their tales of regret to be true , as we so want to believe they can come good.
Hopefully this now will solidify you not going back again.!
Be strong! And be kind to yourself !
I promised I wouldn't be so sad if things fell apart, but I am sad. It was an awful hurtful breakup with lots of losses family and friend relationships that I never thought I would go back. But after a few calls I was back ready to give it my all because he was so sure being without me that he wanted to be with me. We were fine but his family wasn't. He asked if he could stay back at the house and I said no and the next week he ended it via a text. Said I love you but can't do this. I promised I was proceeding with caution, but I'm sad, really really sad. Unfortunately I've exhausted my support system so don't want to complain too much. Help!!