I've fallen pregnant to my partner of 3 years, a man I love deeply and would do anything for. I practically worship the ground he walks on.
Today he told me he doesn't care about me, and he's kicking me out of our house.
I don't know what I'm going to do. I'm completely alone.
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First thing is first you find some where safe to stay with someone that will be happy to have you stay for the long term a pregnant woman can't be spending a night here and there
@Edan I am so sorry, but have to stopped thinking of what happened to you, and now think of that beautiful baby inside of you.......... Yes liked @grex posted find a safe place to stay a loved one family/friend. You will be alright, what man throws out his pregnant woman out of the house? Yes, not a man you should be with! Dr Maya Angelou said this, "when someone showed you, who they are...... Believed them! So you know what kind of man, you were with? One of the biggest mistake you made, was practically worshipping the ground he walked on. Why? He is a just a man with faults, liked all of us...... I've been married for almost 20 years, and I never worshipped my husband, though I loved him deeply....... I am here for you, and SG friends. Best wishes to you on your expectancy! Be strong, the best is yet, to followed. SG friends are here, to support, and be supported.
Thank you for the support. Two days ago everything seemed fine. We were happy then something just snapped in him and now I don't know who he is. He was so supportive and caring and all of a sudden he stopped caring about me and the baby. I'm so worried for my baby, he actually told me to sign up for housing commission, he would rather see me surrounded by drugs and violence and put me and the baby at risk than make sure we're safe. My safety has always been his priority until now. I'm just so lost, I lost my best friend, my partner and my house all in one hit. I don't understand how someone can just suddenly stop caring and loving someone and put them out on the streets. The loving, caring thoughtful person I've spent the last three years with has been replaced by a cruel monster.
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@Edan Yes, find somewhere to stay, please. Stopped thinking about this man behaviour, and feelings, started thinking of your baby’s welfare, and yours. … Take care of yourself please, Circumstances will change! You keep going back to him, I know you loved him, but he is alright in a home, and you are not, he kicked you out! Yes, you lost your best friend, your partner, and your house, in one hit! Yes, “the loving, caring, and thoughtful person you have spent 3 years with has been replaced by a monster!” I am so sorry, But you have to moved on! You are going to be a mother soon, and your baby is going to needed you. Find solace in knowing that you are going to have a tiny bundle of joy, to love unconditionally. It’s the most beautiful, stressful, but rewarding thing you will ever do in your Life. I am a mom of teenagers, the Stress has started, but I loved my kids always! Be strong, the best is yet, to followed. I am here, and so are SG friends to supported you. This baby is going to changed you for the better. Keep your chin up!
Your positive words mean so much to me Irma, thank you <3 my priority now is finding a stable home for my baby, he/she is the most important thing in my life now. I no longer love him, how can I after the way he acted. The only thing I don't regret about the entire relationship is that I've been blessed with the most beautiful gift anyone could ask for: the little life growing inside me
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