I am going to be working with this person this summer and she is so nice but at the same time I am so jealous of her body, she is so pretty, her body is what I wish my body looked liked. I saw her the other day. And now I just can't stop think about how fat ugly I am, and I am just comparing my body to her body. Is anyone else felt this way before if so what did you stop/get over the jealousy and I am looking for any advice or suggestion. I just can't live my summer in jealousy of that person it's not healthy for me, I just don't know what to do, I don't have any advice or suggestions for myself. So wanted to see if anyone had any advice or suggestions for me but if you don't have something that would be of help, something else that would help is knowing that I am not the only person to feel this was also to share your jealousy of someone. It just helps to get my jealousy feelings out and thanks for anyone that reads this and that maybe even replies.
Oh Princess honey, I think of you as one of my own daughters and it breaks my heart to see you feeling this way. I don't know what the right advice is. I truly don't. I can tell you that we've been talking for a while and I know you are a beautiful young woman!!
I am going to be completely honest with you and say that I have felt jealousy at times too. I think it's a common thing as we as humans always seem to wonder if we are good enough. I think it's great that you are talking it out here.
Do you know this other young lady? It sounds like you know she is a nice person so that's great that you will get to be working with someone you know is a good person!! YAY!!! Princess, I'm betting by summers end, you will be posting about how much you two have in common and that you've made a friend for life!!! I say embark on this opportunity to connect with another young lady as wonderful and as pretty as you!!!
She just might be feeling the exact same way about you!!!!
Suzee, your support and your kind words really touched my heart infact I even had a couple of tears come down my face out of happiness, I know all of what you said is true and you truly mean them. And your right jealousy is a common thing. Yah I know this person. I am going to embark this opportunity!
Thanks again, I apreciate it and it means so much to me, suzee all my loves and hugs to you!
I know how you feel when it comes to jealousy, everyone feels it. I am Hispanic origin and I get jealous of Caucasian girls all of the time. I may be "exotic" looking but it seems that guys just want me for sex and then they date the Caucasian girl and marry her. I have brown skin, brown eyes, brown hair. I am a piece of poop. They have blonde hair, green or blue eyes which are beautiful. I am shorter than average and envy the average women. I have scars all over my body when others have perfect skin or light skin that doesn't show imperfections and scars as much. But there is no way to change my hair color or eye color while still looking natural. I am who I am and it is hard sometimes. The only thing I have is good teeth and I'm skinny. The only reason I'm skinny is because I watch what I eat and don't eat much. But I guess we are who we are. We have to accept ourselves for who we are. I have learned to love my personality.
Jassy, thanks for sharing that you are jealous too and what you are jealous of. I want to say I don't think you are poop and I don't have to see you in person to say that. Your right though we do have to learn to accept ourselves for who we are but that is hard to do. Thanks for being there, I don't feel so lonely about this anymore. Moongal posted about Jealousy too on here and the title is jealousy is a ugly word and it's very good and informational post I highly suggest that you read it as well, I did and I love it and found it very informing.
You guys are funny! I've heard several white girls wish they had olive toned skin or exotic looking so that they can seperate themselves from the mass sea of vanilla. Poop? I doubt it, some of the prettiest women in the world are "poop" then. Halle Berry, Salma Hayek, Penelope Cruz, Jessica Alba, Jennifer Lopez, Eva Mendez..........Need I go on?????? Kind of sucks though to find out that I've been attracted to "poop. **** it, I LIKE POOP, I'm such a loser.