What is right in a battle of wrongs? Who can say if one is lesser then another? Is one able to see what others have not been able when those they are viewing have been taught to hide the shame and oppression to the outside world?
It can be accomplished when one passes the denial stage & truly wants to see.
I love your description & it takes all of us to help teach one.
Take care of you my friend & keep going w/your wisdom.
April
I wonder sometime April if it can be taught these Judges who say an abuser is a fit person to have visitations with the children they made with the person they abused or give them custody over the one they abused because they need help to survive
I wish I knew what my Judge is going to rule but I don't have a clue yes as parents we have made mistakes but is there anyone who hasn't Even Mary the mother of Jesus lost him when they journeyed home and had to go back and found him with the Rabi Is that a fit mother to not know for days her child was not with her? Wouldn't they have taken Jesus away from her because she wasn't watching out for her child as a parent should?
Ah honey the laws havent been changed in forever & its up to everyone to help change thoses laws. We see it happen time & time again kids being forced back to the abusers cause they are allowed NO VOICE & again its up to people to change that. I feel animals have more protection then children & the judges do these cases a million times per day & are only going to go so far even when they know better unless someone IS capable to know all the ins & outs of the system & attorneys dont even have all the answers they just get the cash & move on to the next case.
Theres just too many people to try & get a handle on everything & thats why people take matters into their own hands.
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I pray my judge can see through the muck they have been trying to drag my name through because I fear what will become of my son if he is put into the hands of a man who could do these awful things to me what will he do when he is the soul caregiver of a messy ADHD 15 year old who is not always a happy easy going person
Exactly, Its weird to here the word "caregiver" in reference to your ex UGH, so am sure a judge will consider whom would be the better person for continuing scheduled/loving/safe/secure care for your son & thats YOU my dear regardless of what smoke screen anyone trys to throw out there.
I pray your right I know I made mistakes but I admit them I know that I can't go back and fix them all but I can go forward and fix the things I can and do it for the best care of my children my daughter is 19 and she has made choices I do not agree with but I will have to wait till she crashes and burns to be here for her too and my son is 15 I know I don't have much time left but what time I do have I can make better then what I did before