Just need peoples input. Thanks everyone in advance. So, next summer a family member is going to propose to his partner. (They are gay) He wants to have a huge flash mob to do it, in a very crowded area. Thing is, family member is 100% diff. He's quiet and low key. What do you all think of this? Should this not be done in public because he has always been a very private person.
As a low key kind of person in that situation i would be amazed and impressed that someone had done that and appreciate it but not want to be the centre of all the attention . The thought that everyone watching would focus their attention on me saying yes or no would terrify me and probably make me wonder if my other half knew me at all for putting me in that situation . Hope thats some help to you .
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I'm a rather quiet person and not keen on crowds. I know that if it were me I'd hate it. Especially being put on the spot with such an important thing in front of everyone. I can't speak for your family member of course, but it doesn't seem like a good idea to me.
Good question, why not pull out your phone and show the fiance to be a flash mob proposal, tell them how cool this is and say how jealous you are of the planning and time that went into the whole production. Then fish, do they look horrified, or do they agree with you?
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@Hearmeroar good idea!