Well lets see im on here cause obviously im one of the many that has been unfortunate to catch this wonderful thing we call an std and im tired of feelin i have to hide that info . Im really wantin to find someone that i can be open with and possibly have a future with without hideing anything . Well on that note my skeleton has been released from the closet and theres not many left in there that would be as shocking so if theres anyone that would be open to givin me a chance then please feel free to respond .Those of us that do have it still deserve a chance at love . We are all just human !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi, you started with I'm one of many. You are! There are many women and men with STD's looking for a partner (in the same situation that you are in). Also many men and women who don't realize they have an STD until they've found a partner
and he or she gets it and is diagnosed (this is how my partner found out he had it and gave it to me). You're not alone. Have you tried online dating, gotten to really know someone and then thought about telling him/her before getting intimate (or does that thought scare you too much??) You could also get to know someone online, through email, through IM or phone...disclose that you have an STD and then later meet (I'm certain he or she will still want to if they really made a connection with you). Don't give up looking, hoping or dreaming!!
Thanks for the suggestions and inspiration ! Its just a hard subject to be open about and i dont want to hide anything but i want someone to except me ! I really dont like hideing things from potential mates cause i wouldnt want it done to me !
Well ive been talking to this guy and last i saw him things got heated so tonite i thought id revel my secret thinkin it was the right thing to do and i dont feel anymore relief then i did before i told him . Im just so afraid after pondering it a bit he may not want to talk to me anymore . I just want to know there is someone out there that will except me for me other then my abusive ex husband . I hate stayin with him thinkin thats all im capable of getting . I want better !
Yes there is someone good out there for you. Also being alone we can learn to love ourselves and it is better than a bad relationship. Dump the asshole.
Well u are probably right and u know ive come to the conclusion that if someone cant except me for me then i dont want to be with then anyway . I think my new motto is gonna be ( U cant win them all so Batters Up ) !
hello can someone tell what STD MEAN? :))
std stands for sexually transmitted disease