Know this is a question that only I can answer just putting it out there because I don't really have anyone else to talk to or ask. But when is enough enough. How long and how many chances do I give. When do I finally say I deserve better? When do I put my foot down and fallow thru on the conditions I have made?
I have been with my husband for 9 years now the first year or so we were together things where great. I really felt like we both put our all in to our relationship and family. Now I feel like I carry it all on my own. I try my hardest to communicate my needs and feelings with him but most of the time I am met with a brick wall. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have lost my family( mom, dad and sisters) do to staying with him during some really hard trying times, and now I am feeling trapped.
I feel like I have no where to go and no one to talk to. I am a stay at home mom with no friends. So even if I decided to leave I would have no where to go. I have even gotten to the point where I have asked him to leave and he refuses to, says that if I want to leave then I can but he isn't leaving. I am so lost and so sad,