Last night was awesome!! This guy I have been talking too, Adam and myself went star gazing. We laid on top of my car for like 2 hours just talking and then he took me to IHOP. He was so sweet! I am so scared to feel anything for him, I don't know how I feel sexually if I do feel something. I have had sex sense being diagnosed but it still makes me nervous. Say I fall in love with him how can I take his virginity and possibly give him herpes? It's just one of those things I have avoided because I don't know how to wrap my head around it. But...I can't hide from guys forever, so I'm giving it a try. Anyone have advice at how they went about sex with someone they loved or cared about?
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I can't get over how romantic it all was. It sounds amazing! Your courage is inspiring. Please keep us updated on how things are going with you two!
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You know me...I will def be posting about it! thanks! It was one of the sweetest moments :) I'm so scared to put myself out there, but we all have to face our fears at some point, right?
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i accidentally (on purpose) would leave pamphlets about HSV on the table where it could be seen. When my partner would come over and sit at the table, it'd be right in front of their face to read. If they still missed it, then, as they were leaving, i'd give them the pamphlet and have them read it and get back to be on the next chance they got... that's what works for me... it relieves any stress about talking about it being everything is "Written"...
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@a_survivor this is slightly genius!! I will def be giving this a try!
Well, congrats for such sweet date. And always be positive in your approach, and as you told earlier, he knows about your diagnosis, let him take that step, if he does then he loves you more than that disease. And herpes won't stop his love. All the best and awaiting your next update. :)
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