I have been in a long distance relationship for about 7 years. We have met once, and felt the feelings of being "in love" was mutual. Am I moving too fast if I want to marry her, and relocate to her area? Any input would be great. Or should I test the waters a little longer?
Hey palecowboy,
Why if you do not mind me asking so eager to jump into getting married? That is a huge commitment and why would you take it so simply? How about get to know the person for awhile before even thinking along the marriage lines? I am married almost 25 years and I am here to tell you that I do not even know the person I married. Most people are not who they portray themselves to be. So what is the rush?
I hope I hsven't offended you, but I only speak from experience and truth. Take your time, get to know the person as well as you can. Then decide if it is someone you think you can spend the rest of your life with.
Life is so short and to want to jump into something without even really knowing someone is so not worth the risk and added pain. You will know in your heart if it is the right person ane taking the final step should be taken serious and will happen if it is meant to be.
I wish you all the luck in the world that you find someone who is worthy to share your life with. Please take it from me though and do not rush into anything.
If you ever need a friend or someone to talk to, know that I am here for you.
Take care of you and hope to hear from you again soon!
Hugs,
Lily
Thanks Lily, I will take it under advisement. It seems "good things come to those who wait" :)
Would be wise if your interested in marriage to start discussing it w/her & find out what her feelings are on the subject, that way you both are on the same page if she agrees w/you. Am curious as to why you've only met once in 7yrs. though.....hummmmmm.....would be better to visit more often if possible to at least get a handle of the ins & outs of eachothers personality/compatibility, am sure only the good side is showing w/only 1 meeting.
Take care of you.
April