“You can’t do this! You can’t do that!”
My entire fucking life.
who told you that? and what have you done about it all?
Therapists, my mother. I’m sure I’m wrong but I feel like I have to vastly improve myself and get friends just to qualify for getting a girlfriend, (and qualify for my problems even being accepted) and so it sometimes feels like I’ve been told “no” by all women. Being autistic makes me feel or wonder if neurotypical women can’t like me. It offends me sometimes when people suggest I date other people with the disorder, like that’s all I’m good for (I don’t mean offense to anyone with a disorder), and I dont see them dating people woth disorders, certainly not out of the kindness of their hearts.
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Have confidence in your abilities and believe in yourself. Self-Belief is the most important thing that people miss out on.
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Thanks
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Hey, maybe the secret is to find Neurodivergent women! I found my bf at work. We didnt have our first kiss, we were just getting to know each other and i received a message from him sayin he had swallowed a bunch of pills, on our way to work i dropped him off at the hospital and i regret not going in with him that day. We’ve been dating for 3 years now. We’re both Neurodivergent and thats one big reason to why we get along so well, we get along in our suffering and our twisted brains. I still believe the first step to get into dating is to figure yourself out a bit first, i know its hard to know what you want in a partner if you had none, but you do know, at least you know what you dont want in one. I know you might want someone “normal” but they just dont understand and dont know how to deal, i wouldnt know how to deal with autism for example. Idk if i helped or just made it worse or just didnt do anything at all but yeah
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