Living with others who drink andor use

Anyone out there who is in recovery and lives with others who are still actively drinking and/or using? What is it like for you? How do you deal with this?

My partner is what they call a "dry drunk": clean, but has all the attributes of someone still using.
It's tough, but it makes me thankful for my sobriety and my willingness to work the steps. I just keep my side of the street clean and let the rest take care of itself.