Over the past four years my husband and I have experienced three pregnancy losses. Our first was a ruptured ectopic causing me to lose my left fallopian tube. Our second loss was a "typical- whatever that is" miscarriage. And two weeks ago we had our third loss and it was a ruptured ectopic again, this time taking my right fallopian tube. I am only 29years old and my husband is 31. We have been together for 11 years and married 6 of those. We are both at a loss right now. We know that our only remaining options for children are through In-vetro Fertilization or adoption and we are okay with that. But my grief continues to haunt me on all three of our losses. I have a wonderful husband who supports me as best he can. But I had not gotten over the first two losses when this one occured. So now I feel so empty and alone. I know of no one who has been through this and despite those who try to be supportive, they just seem to make me feel worse. I am here looking for someone who may have traveled this road and could give me some guidance because I need the support.
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i hope you are doing better. I have not gone through what you have, but know people who have. I hope that you will find good support here to move forward and work towards having a child.
Sending you many positive thoughts and wishing you all the best! please let us know how you are doing and keep us updated here.
well for one you kind of never can get over those types of loses. i haven't but everyone is different. i'm sorry about what happened to you but sometimes the best thing to do is just try and hope for a better day. i know its hard but sometimes hope is what keeps you going
Let me see that I truely understand what you are going through! I have been through two pregnancy losses I lost my daughter when I was 5& hlf months when i lost her she past away 2-16-10 they then let me know that I had an incompent cervix.. then three months ago I ended up pregnant again until two months ago, I ended up bleeding & had to to go the er for the drs to tell me that my body was trying to have an threatned abortion & then I ended losing my baby through bloodclots ;(.. I didn't know that it had occurred until we had an follow up apt for the dr to give me an ultrasound & for me to see that there was no baby there anymore. I was hurt i'm only 23 i know i can try again but it's still hard to go through these losses so if you ever need anybody to speak to.. you can always write me my email is: [email protected]
im so sorry for your loss i know how you feel i recently had a miscarriage 3 months ago i was pregnant with twin girls i lost them at 18 weeks my cervix was to weak and my miscarriage was due to stress while i was pregnant i found out my 3 year old daughter has high functioning autism! god has a plan for everything he does! i will be praying for you! keep your head up and stay strong!