I lost my husban of 32 years on march 22, he was 57. He had lung and bone cancer. I am in remission from my cancer. I have 3 children 29,25,16. I am lost without him
I am sorry to hear about that. You didn't lose your husband, he is living inside of yours and your kids hearts. At least you have your kids there for you, and all trying to get through this tough time right now. I don't know really what to say, because I haven't been in your situation, but I would love to help you anyway possible.
Dear csmom,
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine how painful this is. I lost my best friend to cancer and I know I thought my heart was just going to quit beating because of my sadness. It's been 4 years now, and it's better. Not great, but better. Please know that we are here for you. We will hold your hand through whatever you need us for. You have found an unbelievable place here and while I'm so sorry for what you are going through, I am glad you found us.
Please keep posting whatever you feel like posting. THis is a safe, gentle place to be and begin to heal. This is a very big place so if you feel you arent being heard, just keep posting. Sometimes it can take a couple of days for people to see you, as some of us can't be here every day but we all really do care so much. There are amazing people here who you will meet soon, I am sure!!
We are holding your hand and ready to listen whenever you need us. I want to hug you and take all of your pain away. Please know that you are not alone. I know that there are others who've experienced what you have and they will have some of the answers to help you through.
I just wanted to respond to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. Please feel free to message me if I can help you with anything.
Sending sincere hugs, Suzee
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