me and my boyfriend had a fight last night told me that I was disgusting to him and that I did not matter to him in distress I took 14 pills and passed out when I awoke I was on the floor and with a bad headache you would think he would care or noticed but he didn't only stepping over me and leaving this morning telling that any money he gave me had had to earn by having sex with him first
I truly know now I am nothing and will never be nothing to any man
Powerful words. Be aware of what you create with them. You are powerful.
sorry to sound illiterate but I don't understand
I'm sorry for what you are going through nwla! I am very shocked with the behavior of your bf. he is clearly treating you as an Object! You are more than that, way more! You're a Beautiful Person don't let his Ignorance get to you Buddy!
thank you john doe its crazy because I have been with this man for 9 years even bearing his son and changing a lot about myself for him I feel as though I have lost myself and there is no coming back
I haven't had a relationship yet, so I can't give you a specific advice, but keep your Head High and do what you gotta do Buddy!
@JohnDoe2014 let me tell you this thank god you are not in one they are like jobs you have to keep up appearances and keeping a person happiness even when they are ungrateful is lot I feel like if I hadn’t started out being in a relationship so long I would have been ok
You will be everything to a man that is deserving of you. This man doesn't deserve you at all. I hope you believe that. You can find yourself again. Fight for it. You are worth it. Start putting yourself first. Don't change some much for anyone because your giving them permission to walk all over you. I've been their and its hard. Keep your head up. Keep pushing it's not over. Don't give up
You are beautiful and stronger than you think. Gather that strength and make choices that are the best for you and your child, not him. He does not deserve you!
@LPatz thank you so much I really appreciate it
He's not your BOYFRIEND...He's just a BOY.
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them" ~Maya Angelou~
Can this guy show u any more how he REALLY feels about you? Is there any reason for u to even hang around any longer to see IF he will change? Time is precious my dear. Do you even feel he deserves another SECOND of ur time? That's all on u if you continue to give him chance after chance. He seems to fall in the category of my son's dad; Someone who never gives a FU*K!!! His actions are shouting that loud & clear.
AND you ARE worth something...just not to that low life. Let's keep it moving, shall we....just to leave some self-dignity.
Hi neverwllloveagain sometimes men can be jerks that really pisses me off that he treated you that way. Not all men are the same there are some good ones out there. However he is not worth you putting yourself down like that. I hope and pray that you can get past those feelings of hurt and rejection soon. Get back on your feet and move on with your life he does not deserve you. You are better than that God Bless You.
@neverwillloveagain I always tell my daughter and I try to remember that someone else's action do not tell me about who I am. Their actions tell me about who they are. What I do in response tells me about who I am. That where I try to put my energy on who I am and what I want to be. That is the only person in the equation that I can change. Stay strong.
U are in an emotionally abusive relationship that's not healthy baby u should leave him and work on u before u kill yourself he sees your weakness and uses it against u don't give him that u r so much better than that trust me I know I been where u are now and when u love yourself u will see u don't need him or ant man to validate u then the right one will come along praying for u
Don't continue to give your all to someone who won't give you their all. I learned that in the relationship I just got out of a month ago. Everyone on SG is here to offer you the advise and support you need once you get the courage to leave him and take care of yourself for once. Do you have family or friends in your life that can help you if you need help with more tangible things? (meaning a place to stay and whatever else you might need)
I am worried that you may accidentally take too many pills and harm yourself. It sounds like you need to get rid of this guy and find someone who is a real partner.
That is not true. You are something. He is an ***. And heartless. You don't need someone like that dragging you down
I know it's so hard, and everyone tells you to leave him. But you stay because of a chemical feeling in your brain, that makes your heart believe you love this guy, believe me sweetheart. All it is is a chemical in your brain, your brain and heart both know that you are worth a million times more than this man. You should try to realise that no woman/man should accept that behavior from anyone if it were me posting this in a group, you would sure tell me to leave that relationship behind. Always remember you are loved, you are beautiful and a human being who deserves love and respect. Good luck xx
@Mm1995 thank you so much your are right that it is very hard to leave I know that I should leave for my health and my sake but at the same time its as if my feet are stuck and my heart is pulling me in his direction im at a cross roads and its only getting harder
"Establish having a life of your own to live". Don't give your emotions to those who don't care. Great advice for myself. TWO THUMBS UP!!