Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a year ago, we were together for 5 yrs, he's moved on and has a new girlfriend but I still think about him and talk about him to my friends. I'm finding it hard to move on, I've met someone but I keep my distance as I do not feel I want to fall in love again after the turbulent relationship with my ex...I've lost most of my confidence and I feel insecure even tho I know I'm a nice person. Sometimes I feel it's better not to look for love again as all my relationships ends the same way, I am 40 yrs old....
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Re-evaluate your wants in a man. Dont settle for less than what you feel will make for a healthy relationship. Dont let a failed situation close your heart. You might miss your soul mate.
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Just because your ex has moved on doesn't mean you have to. If you want to keep seeing this person or not, let them know what's going on for you so they have the option to do what they need to do for them, while at the same time you doing the same. It's important you focus on yourself as much as possible in order to gain that trust in someone else again. But don't get discouraged if you don't find someone right away. You will be fine, it just might take a bit of time, you're still young.
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