My boyfriend of two and a half months just broke up with me by ignoring my txts and phone call. I'm trying not to throw a pity party. The last time we were together everything was great, we have been sleeping together since the fourth date. I feel like I maybe should have seen this coming; I made him have the "where are we going with this relationship" talk and he asked me where I would like to go with our relationship. I told him I wanted to build a future with him and he said something along the lines of, "I would like that too, I like you a lot, but I'm not ready to commit to a future together yet because I had a very rough divorce." Which I accepted and told him that I understood and that he was worth waiting for. I wish I knew why he decided to pull away.
It sounds like he just wasn't ready? I am sorry you are going through this pain. Sending hugs and love to you. You deserve to be with someone who loves, and wants that future with you.
@missamt1 You were right, he did say sorry and come back, but then he proceeded to ignore me again so I broke things off. I’ve decided that I deserve to be valued.
OK, I know I'll get jumped all over for this, but it sounds like he was mostly looking for one thing: sex. I think next time if you want to see if a guy is serious about you, then you should have sex after the relationship talk. Good luck!
@shortstack Lol yeah you’re right, I gave it up too soon. It’s a difficulty I have. I thought I was doing good because I made it to the fourth date.
Maybe he wasn't really divorced? If the relationship was to be taken to the next level, it may have been something he couldn't do. Just putting it out there since many people start a new relationship before ending the current one. I personally wouldn't lose to much sleep over it. Just be careful when meeting people to not give to much of yourself until they are also giving alot to the relationship.
@Jenn7814 Thank you.