It hurts sometimes being a religious man's girlfriend, they're always busy doing the work of god, but sometimes, i just wanna spend time with him for at least once after school. Is that to much to ask?? I understand he has to put god before me, i do the same thing, but sometimes its unfair that he has to be busy all the time. Maybe im being a little selfish, but i need a little bit of time with my boyfriend every now and then, besides just taking me to church and seeing each other at school. I need a little more than that. Should i discuss it with him, that i would like to spend more time with him? or no?
Yes Brianna,
You should absolutely talk to your boyfriend about this. His work is important and that is fantastic that he takes the work of God so seriously, but talk to him about how you feel, it is important for the survival of a relationship that ye communciate openly.
Love to you
Moongal x