my son started kindegarten this year and ever since his behavior in and out of school got out of hand, the most recent he was mad i made him wear his coat and threw a tantrum all the way to school and then went and told the school i smacked him in the face. my kids are now with a foster family and my kindergartener doesnt even want to come home and tell me and others he has a different mommy now, my youngest son really misses me and wants to come home.... I'm so sad over all this and they never give me answers and im supposed to go to court and they havent set it up and its all so frustrating.
that sounds really rough. I feel for you. I hope things work out for you. Keep your head up and stay strong for them. You will get through it.
*hugs*
My heart goes out to you & I'm sure the court systems findings/proceedings will be in your favor. I'm so sorry honey.
All my strengths.
April
I am so sorry for you having to deal with this. Do you have family or friends who will help you out? I am sure that everything will come to light and they will see it was a misunderstanding.
I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. I have had to put my children into voluntary foster care four months ago as I couldn't cope and had prblems keeping my house clean and hygienic. I know what is happening is different in ways to you but i did have probelms with one of mine and their behaviour.
It is hard to have children in foster care and must be extremely hard when you are told one doesn't want to come home. It must be hard on you and them to deal with emotions and he may just say that you see how you react. He may be feeling confused and don't know how to express himslef and it comes out as hate.
My eldest child has told me they want to come home but i have to wait for assessments to be done for them to come back. You must think of your children everyday like I do. I know how hard it is not to have children living with you and how lonely it can be.
It does take a while for them to get everything through to court. It took nearly four months for me to get a first hearing and it does take a while for them to sort everything out. They should appoint a guardian for your children who helps fight for their rights in court and they only say in court what hyour children have expressed. Keep your head up high. The courts do all they can to make sure that the children can be returned to you and try to get parties to set up as much support as they can for you and your children