My dad has never really been apart of my life. It's like he just threw me away like trash after he got married. Now he lives in another country & I had to find out from my grandmother he was gone. Recently I asked him why doesn't he want to be apart of my life & he said "blah blah blah I didnt abandon you & you're 18 you can take care of yourself" I'm just very upset & don't know how to get over this because like I really don't have a father & that's hard to accept.
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Aww stay positive stay motivated stay strong:) I'm here for you if you need someone talk to:)
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@Mr.z thank you but I’m fine I just want my dad you know. I feel like its a whole in my heart & I’m scared I’ll never see him again & I’m only 18… I don’t have anyone to walk my down the aisle when I get married, my kids won’t know him… It just sucks that he chooses not to be in my life
@tryingtorecover889 I empathized with you. I was brought up by a strong, single mother my siblings, and I. I am also the mom of teenagers, the oldest is an 18 year old boy, who just finished his freshman year at university. My son really needed his dad at this time of his life especially at 18 years old! My husband, and I are constants in his life, and we will be so, until he is capable of standing on his own feet. I am sorry you feel liked you have a hole in your heart, and you will never see your dad again.... It certainly sucked that he chose not to be in your life. Maybe you should write him a letter, and expressed to him how you feel. Be strong, the best is yet, to followed...... SG friends are here, to support, and be supported. Have afaith.
@Irma i tried to talk to him & he said he doesn’t care that I can take care of myself