My father tells me over and over again that he knows I'm in

My father tells me over and over again that he knows I'm in pain. That he knows the holidays kill me with out my mother. What do I say to that? Yes, everything you are saying is true. I can't do that. I don't know what too do. I'm just waiting to see how much longer I can keep this up.

Say the following to your father. Please don't worry, mother wants us to be happy, so instead of dying for her in sadness, i am going to try to live for her in happiness. You should try to do the same.

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