My husband is deployed. We got into an argument last night and he threatened to kill himself. I was video chatting with him and he took his 9mm pistol and aimed it to his face and told me that if he dies that it's my fault. Today he told me that I should go kill myself instead. I'm too ashamed to tell people that I know how my marriage really is because they think that he's so perfect. I feel like I cannot leave because he's the breadwinner. I know I have a choice to leave, but i don't know if i can.
Can you talk to the Chaplain assigned to his unit and let him or her know what is going on? Is he always like this or is it possible stress/PTSD? Can you talk to his parents as well?
@CKBlossom This is the third time he did this. The first 2 times I talked to his commander all they did was put him through counseling, but when he is alone in his room he threatens me with his life. He has done this once when he was home and I left the house because he was going crazy. He video chatted with me and told me that he was going to kill himself. I don’t want to tell his command anymore because they’re just going to send him home to me and he needs medical help that I cannot give him.
I tried to message you but we have to be supporting first . I hope you are ok
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First and foremost your safety is by far the most important thing for you to take care of, and nothing that he is doing is your fault. I would recommend encouraging him, to seek help becuase he matters. Does he take medication, he may need psychologically evaluated if he is a harm to himself or others. Also does he seem disoriented or unclear when having other conversations?
My prayers are with you because this sounds like a situation no one should have to experience! What ever you do don't let him feel you are abandoning him! And if you can try to make what ever you decide to do his idea! The most dangerous time for an abused person is when their partner thinks they are leaving them. Please, please get some help for yourself to cope with what must be a nightmare for you! Hugs & best of wishes!