My kids father thinks its okay to chat with other females on

My kids father thinks its okay to chat with other females on Facebook behind my back on fake Facebook accounts. I have asked him to change so many times and he promise he will do it but never follows through and that hurts. HE is 25 years old talking to girls younger then 18 that live in mexico ... His excuse is always I'm not physically cheating on you so whats the problem . Can you believe that . What am I suppose to do ?

From a person who spoke with women online and texted with them I thought the same that is was not cheating. When my wife found out about it and that she did not approve of it and asked me to stop I still did not think it was cheating but I stopped because she asked me too. It has been about 10 years since I did that and not till recently in Therapy did I come to realize that it is cheating. Let him know just how much it bothers and hurts you and ask him again not to do it. Maybe say to him if he wants to talk to women like that then to talk to you like that, make it game to spice up your love life. I am sorry he is not listening to you and how unhappy you are with him doing this. I hope he stops!

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@DRPR Thank you for your advise and I also hope he stops after seeing me crying non stop. We have been together 7 years and love so beautiful like ours cant die because off things like this . :slight_smile:

i know exactly how u feel. i am older then u but my ex husband did that among many other things.....plus my bf now, thinks no guys friends at all should post on my profile....yet he can talk to all the girls he wants....n blocked me so i wouldn't see lol......needless to say he is a ex bf now

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@hellifiknow I have not found the courage yet to let him go and I think I need advise on that. How do u let people go whom you have 2 children with ?

i know it hurts you and bothers you......my relationship was much worse then just the internet....he became very abusive to me and my kids....so that just made my love almost turn to hate bc of the pain and suffering.....especially to my kids. i agree to tell him how it makes u feel and maybe some coonseling

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