My mate seems to think that I'm negative but anytime we're on good terms I'm the best person for him. I need someone to tell me whether I'm really negative or not. More details when I get response. Feel free to resin I need to know
From what you are saying I don't think you are negative, no offense but just from what you said it seems to me that he is not the kind of person who understands how to help you when you need it, so he ignores it and says you're negative when you are not.
Allison its the little things. I got 5 messages stated that he wasn't happy and if I don't get it together he's gone. But before all this I was being cheated on, and more I was begging him to do right he couldn't get it right. And I still stayed now that I don't go the extra mile like I use to its a problem. I love my man o want us to make it work BUT he thinks I'm always blaming him and I can never hold up for things I do. I just don't understand. Then I feel like he's a massive manipulator because he's older than I am and takes advantage of that
@Pumpkinseed I hate to say this, because I got so mad when people said it to me, but in my opinion you deserve better. You deserve someone who supports you no matter what and is always there for you no matter how you feel at the time. I still don’t think your negative, but I do think he is.
My thing too. If I worked with you through your hard times and cheating why can't you work with me? Im
@Pumpkinseed That’s perfectly reasonable, Personally my only boyfriend ever cheated on me twice and I have since learned that if they are willing to cheat once they will again. It doesn’t matter how good or bad of a person they are they will hurt you again.
I just hate to have to deal with this. I want to be but I really doubt that we're not going to make it.
I'm sure whatever you decide will be the right decision, if you ever need to talk I am here
Thank you so much
@Pumpkinseed Of course any time