ok..I'm 34,a single mom,have my own apartment,an 8 1/2 yr old son whose dad is incarcerated at the moment,tons of bills,and YEARS worth of horrible debt!...My favorite person in the world ( my grandmother) passed away a few months ago, & I've felt lost ever since...My mother has ALWAYS been extremely jealous of my relationship with my grandma, because we were so close...My grandmother was more of a mother to me than my real mom has ever been. I have an irresponsible 24 yr old baby sister,who gets treated 100 times better than me. my mother tends to give my sis the upper hand in everything!...she's not teaching her ANY type of responsibility...i can honestly say, that if she had 2 kill 1 kid & hold onto the other..i'd be dead...sad huh?...
leady....sound familiar, different in that there was jealousy between my mother and me and my son. do to my additions back in the day they raised him for a period of time. i call him the golden child, no issues with him its mother, i am the only child and she did have a granddaughter my daughter, her and i were both female, as she had always wanted a boy and could'nt have children after me...long complicated story but i hear ya, does'nt feel good no matter how ya slice it. i'm sorry hun.....my most deepest heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your grandma.
there is also a group to join on grief over you loss and jealousy regarding you present situation
I know how you feel! My mother prefers my ****** sister over me. She bought her an expensive emerald ring when she graduated! I got some stupid cake. She also got a green Toyota Celica that she totaled!!I NEVER got a car! I hate herand my mom. I don't speak to my moter anymore. It's sad.