My mother brought me up telling me that good men, loyal men

My mother brought me up telling me that good men, loyal men are out there. When will a guy love me for me and not try and change me? When will I find a man worth marrying? When will "I love you" have true meaning? Is my soul mate truly out there?

yes he/she is out there and I want to believe that soul mate who god created only for you is out there. I am lost too I do not know what love is any more