My narc has snapped again because I told his mother why I left. He has called me non stop, text me, called my house phone, my siblings, and is threatening to sue me... Then called his mother and said i have "hidden" money. All because I told the truth.
Yikes! Sounds like a typical narc reaction. Hang in there, you did the right thing.
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Can I ask what you told her? Details or general information? The reason I ask is because with me, his camp would defend him even if they knew the truth and should evidence. Are you close to his mom? I don't see harm in being honest. Plus secrets are only good for the narc.
Sorry you are going through this.
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Oh so sorry Yellowrose to hear that but I know exactly what you mean. Scary.
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I am tempted to threaten him by saying I am going to tell his gf and her family the truth too. I just don't want to seem vindictive in court. I save all texts and send them to two separate email accounts. I record phone calls too so he can't gaslight me. They are probably inadmissable in court but it helps ME remember the truth. Yesterday was crazy I was actually afraid.
Yellow rose I told the whole truth and offered to send proof if she wanted it. He went back and lied to her and she text me saying what he said (that I make 4000 a month) and I asked her how I would do that as a stay at home mom. I don't care if she believes me, I told the truth.
How do you all deal with the stress of fearing the next phone call? After days like last night i spend 2-3 days on edge.