My parents fails at parenting at so many levels it just hurt me so badly. It's feels so bad when your own parents disagrees to take a chance to know you or understand you, and feels only the things that they agree on or do is right. And if I every try to (explain)why the activities they are doing has not only left a scare in me it will also effect my younger sibling . They turn me down by saying that I am answering them back and stuff like that and also when i reach to the point that might convince them then they start to state that I am a young and dumb hormonal teenager and also like calling me bad luck etc etc. So like wow I am a the one who is using my tongue so poisonously (which you say as you feel like I am answering you back ) and you are the one who is stinging me and lowering my self esteem . I am so sorry you feel that I am a horrible child but you nearly understand what I am going through. I wish I could tell them that you were about to get so lucky as you could've lost me couple months ago haha I am sorry but you are not because I am a true survivor. So guys this is my story tell me how do I handle things!! I really need your help and also how do I handle myself emotionally ?
I hope this doesn't come across as cold... but you probably are a dumb hormonal teenager and your parents are probably old and stuck in their ways, stuck in the past.. This is the circle of life and one day you will be dealing with your own dumb hormonal teenager.
This doesn't mean that you shouldn't be treated with love and respect. The problem is your parents might not know how to show it. You are not the small child they once knew. You are growing faster than their old minds can keep up. They can be as confused as you are. You are use to seeing your parents as parents and not just confused, people who are trying to reach a teenage child. They don't understand what you are going through unless you tell them in an adult matter that they can understand.
Just because you might not be getting along with your parents, doesn't mean they don't love you. As you get older, you will start to see your parents with the answers and knowledge but as people who worry they might make mistakes. In time it gets better.
@Mark1325 I have no idea how to respond to your comment/concern. Yes I agree that I am a teenager and that I am very hormonal and also that I make dumb decisions sometimes. And haha yes I am a VERY CONFUSED teenager. And I am so sorry I was not clear enough they take me as a teenager and also that I’m dumb but hormonal thing that they think that doesn’t exist I think they forgot about their days.
And also it's not like what you might be thinking like those teenagers who often argue and disrespects their parents and that type ... You know what I mean