I am new to this website and hope it can be of help. I have 2 sons who I love more than my own life. One of them is a heroin addict. He will be 24 this year and is currently in jail. I can rest easier knowing he is there and safe from his addiction. I am constantly fearing a phone call that something terrible has happened. I want him to be well. I wish I knew what to do. Everyone says that he has to want it. I noticed that one lady posted if he could get well on love he would be 100% healthy (I know I didn't quote that completely), but wanted to mention it because it is so very true for my son also. He is loved more than he may ever know. I don't have the money for costly rehabs and I don't know exactly where to turn. Does anyone have any suggestions or know of any sponsors?
Thank you and I'm sorry that we are in the "same boat" - my boat stinks!
dear one, there is Alanon for friends and family of those suffering from addictions. i sincerely and strongly reccommend you look up on the net to find your nearest local group. they can be of support and help unlike no one else. let us know how it works if you choose to check it out. i have addiction in my family going way back and Alanon has litteraly saved my life and times from bad to tolerable to good. all my best,