My wife and I were intimate this morning and she did something for me she had never done before. Afterwards she told me how much she loved me and was sorry for what she had done, that she wanted to make new memories with me to help replace the bad ones. This had made me feel better that some things she shares only with me. We made breakfast together for the kids and are going to visit my brother later. I hope this good feeling can last for a while.
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Wish you the best keep working on it hope you both are looking forward
I hope so too! Stay happy! :-)
I guess it can't last. Now we're at the museum and I can't shake this funk. Don't have the images at least but feeling down. It's harder when we're not at home.
This is what I deal with all the time! I think we are supposed to just let go of all the negative thoughts. No point. Maybe find a cool exhibit to discuss. Ask a worker to tell you more?
@Sibcy I don’t know how to let go yet. She asked me today if I wanted to love her forever, I said yes. What I don’t know is, if I can love her forever. I want to be able to look at her without seeing the betrayel. I find it difficult to focus on the future. Why do this, why not just separate, would that be easier? At least I wouldn’t have to look at her.
You are right. The separation or divorce is a quick fix. Sounds like you love her though. Do you think she will do it again? If you look at it as if it was a terrible mistake and it's done perhaps you can forgive her
I will try she wants to build our future together.
Having trouble being positive tonight, feeling down thinking about her betrayal. Want to just enjoy the evening with family but finding it difficult.
@Big08 I know how you feel. The hurt from the betrayal always comes creeping back in your mind…not that it ever really leaves.
I know the feeling. wish I could control my brain again. But try and focus on the children they belong to the two of you alone. that's something they couldn't or cant share with anyone else